Friday, January 4, 2013

Guns and Garbages

Four days after the world entrance to 2013, stigmas of the last year dawn event still haunts us. Failure to disarm licensed and non-licensed gun owners is still a huge issue that posted cacophony of opinions in facebook and twitter. This is not an isolated case in the Philippines. In the United States, gun control is also a didactic issue. After the tragedy brought about by the Adam Lanza terror, there still is a debate whether amendments in gun procurement is necessary or unconstitutional.

The DOH held a press conference noontime of January 01 claiming that the campaign against firecracker usage is a success. But the numbers of cracker related incidence cannot lie. It speaks otherwise. It is a pseudo success considering that it dropped in all fairness to the Gangnam campaign. But only in a minimum risk.

Other disasters should also be the foci of new year campaign. For example, the fire brigade must heighten the alert for fire incidences next year. Though the number of cracker victims dropped this year we were not at all free from the fire that devastated Metro Manila areas. Just before the new year, 12 fire incidences happened simultaneously in Metro Manila and neighboring provinces. This is an alarming phenomenon. It only shows that community awareness programs are not that strong in our country. People and local government units must be more responsible during this delicate moment of the year. Still, something is terribly wrong!

I went to mass the next morning after the welcoming of the year. I am not surprised that garbage is all around. Trashes and leftovers of the occasion were still on the grounds of street. And though I am not surprised, I am ashamed of the kind of culture we have here. Again, the responsibility lies on the local government shoulder. Designating street sweepers by 3 in the morning is just a suggestion. By morning of January 01 the entire municipal and metropolitan vicinity must be clean and remnants of New Year Street Parties must be a thing of the past already. The same is true with theme parks and national landmarks where most families spent the midnight glory breaking into 2013. The park management should remind the goers to be responsible of their own trashes. Cleanliness and deodorization must be a priority of this country and I am not kidding when I say this.

Lastly, the incidence that really brought heartache in all of us is about the indiscriminate firing of irresponsible gun owners that brought a seven year old named Stef Nicole Ella into her grave. The more we are silent about it as a community, the more courageous these monsters become. Each community must be watchful. The Philippine National Police must conduct New year disaster preparedness seminars that will educate residents of each Barangays to be more vigilant of gun owners within the neighborhood. The ricochet of gun bullets can cause injuries if not fatalities to our little ones. And I am deeply grudged by the fact that indeed most victims of gunfire incidences are children. This scenario is now being used by RH opponents who situates what happens when you enjoy at the expense of a child's innocent life as an analogue to what happens when you enjoy sex experience with your partner without the intention of bringing a child to life. This a think is a hysterical issue all the way. We must concentrate only on the gun issue and not on the ethos of the newly signed RH Law.

It is true, that more families now prefer to enjoy watching staged events, concerts, amusement parks and food tripping than buying firecrackers in Bocaue. The lifestyle brought by this hard times gives more spaces to family relationship and get togetherness than holiday expenses. But this should not give us reasons to be laidback and wait for another incidence to happen. You might not know that the next fire could be on your neighborhood or another ricochet of bullet from an indiscriminate firer be on your pasta plate much worse if on your rooftop.

My confessor give me one piece of advise before the year 2012 ended. "Instead of listening to doomsdayers and igniting fireworks, contemplate about the previous year." ---t'is the only way we can avoid the same tragedies we have had.

Isn't it nice to welcome a new year without any negative news to be bothered about?
{photo courtesy of webring.org}

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

So Here I Go Again



#justanother wierdthing aboutme

I feel bored when there's someone with me while traveling. I am never bored traveling alone.

To My Point Now

It's been a year. A lot of unfinished drafts are yet to be published here so I can complete the 2011 project.

I have a lot to say about 2012. But this is not about recap. Neither is it about circumspection. This is a welcome piece for 2013.

How much we love new year. We adore it more knowing that Santi celebrates his birthday exactly the first day of the year. And Hanika Lyn celebrating the next day after. Sometimes we wonder if the foods she serves during her party are leftovers from last night. Haha! Just kidding.

So here I go again. Greeting you all a happy new year. Thanks for reading this and for following what's going on with me. Though I may not be one of the most followed persons in the cyberworld [grateful indeed, a blessing].

What promises I have to keep? None. It will just tighten the pressure of writing everything that comes to mind. I learned that most of the time, you have to write seldom with substance than often without content.

Yes there are lots to say. Plenty of thoughts to share. I hope that this 2013 I can publish more than that which benefits the reader. What I do know is that I'll be more prudent in sharing things about the way I see and experience the world. Yet, becoming more adventurous for the sake of excitement and aesthetic contentment.

Practically, being more present in this kind of world where we are living in. To teach rather than entertain. To invite collective opinions rather than divide individualistic views and being judgmental.

As I say, these are not promises. These are luminous mantras to guide us by.

Hi 2013!!!!

Bear with us all and be good to us. I know you have much much in store for us. We are looking forward to a brighter you as we face optimism ahead.

So to all... wait for all the posts I will prepare for the world to read.

I say, A BLESSED NEW YEAR TO ALL OF US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

sight of some moments to remember

Perfect for a December 07 are the things that happened so recently. Today is Carlo's birthday and I just arrived home from the party. The nights was alright.

I started the day weaving seconds with the rain. It is a wet Wednesday when all you think of is eating champorado while having conversations overseas with Champ Baldovino [no joke lang,"Champ it is not that you look like Champorado actually, you are the opposite.] Why is this day important for Carloses around the world?

December 07 2003 was my bonding with Carlo, ok with Champ. This time, after 08 years, I am present in another Carlo's birthday. I left my bingo cards to Carlo as I leave the school so I can spend some time alone in San Pablo City. That was a date. Having some time alone for myself. Actually, that was because Lara Faye wounded me by refusing to be my date at the event. So what, if that's family day? For me that should be lover's day.

But so much for that now. It has been eight years and a lot of things had change. This afternoon, pansit was good and all other foods including the lumpiang shanghai with sili are delicious.

Well, maybe that's all for now. I guess starting it right by going to the Brown men makes the story entirely different. I am so happy with the grace of living this day and looking forward to tomorrow with a lighter feeling. That's it. Tomorrow, I have to start the selection process as to who I will post as the person of the year for 2011. Excited about that. Well, continue reading my inputs.

Monday, December 5, 2011

lights and trees and snows

Oh I was unable to reconnect with the world for five days. Actually December for me starts with December 05 so it's just ok. Finally an article close to New Year's Day.
A season of embrace and wishes. It just feel so right.

Say Hello to December 2011

Ok just as I've said, it is getting cold but no snow here in the Philippines. We wish there is but that would make our region a tundra climate. The last few days were rough I know but with the right disposition and courage I was able to win anxieties and headaches. I few just wait for sometime, everything will get better.

Actually, I am preparing now for my last post to be published this December 29 where in I will look back to all the great things that happened this 2011. Oh that is something I really look forward too. And that would be a longer than usual article.

By the way, December 05 has always been a special date to me for various reasons. Every year, this day has a surprise... only that this year it seem like an ordinary day. Started sunny but at the middle became rainy. I don't know. The usual thing, party and celebration starts every December 05. Being a Monday makes it dragging. But still I am thankful of whatever happened and perhaps unknowingly, there are blessings that got into my life today. Who knows?

Hmmm... what else can I say other than it is getting colder and colder every night? probably none as of now. Things are just being set and preparation is at the height. Some people may come back after long stay abroad and some may just be new acquaintances. You know, life is too short but long enough to make friends. So let's make friends. With the world's population getting 7 billion , as in WOW, I wish there could be more friends and enemies. More buds than haters. We want to live in a world where all people embrace each other like there is no tomorrow. Since it is a time of love, the month of giving, one of the best things we can offer is friendship. I can't wait to reunite with old friends and meet my new friends.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

lights beyond flamboyance of styles

So why not write on JS' birthday. As she celebrates it away from where I am. My close friend and sometimes fairy god mother, sometimes my companion and sometimes my critic. Sometimes a monster but most of the time an angel. She savors talking to me but adores me when I only listens. She gives me the brightest of ideas but rejects my unsolicited advices. So she is. The only one who understands me when I feel like I am uncomprehensible. She makes symmetry when I cannot reconcile. Today is her birthday and what can I give her better than a piece of d*** in my blog. A little space it is.

Well I have no plans of torturing myself by the thoughts of her special day. I only want to recount what best things happened this month of November aside from the frenzy of crowd aggregates going gaga over Breaking Dawn or the superstitious beliefs about 11.11.11 which happened some Friday ago. I have no plans on wondering how my future girlfriend if ever there will be one and JS' future boyfriend will ever understand the friendship and fraternity we have before they meet us. Or will they ever understand?

I just want to, as I said earlier, savor the highlights of this month. When I try recalling what November 1 was all about, it gives me a sort of abstract as to what November is for the year 2011. JS broke the news about their upcoming activity for November 16-22. And for the entire month, that's all we've been talking about. Aside from that we made room for other extra activities that we can fill in when I go to Manila for a visit. Succesfully, Daryl and I met again and introduced me to more friends. Sounds really fabolous right?

Oh don't forget my goal and dream to taste a genuine Milk Tea. Lately, my taste buds remained into drinking combined calamansi and green oranges for after lunch. How do you want your liquids to satiate you? Then there's krispy Kreme and the KFC Krushers that contradicts the stigma of in-your-face coldness of teh yuletide holidays. All these to lighten up the thirsty me.

A chnage of place is like breathing fresher air beneficial to ones health. Obviously, November is a month of laziness. It is a month which invites you to travel and traveling makes your eyes and feet util. Staying in a closed compound or in a single house to make it worse, is to rob yourself of freedom to enjoy the world. the world is not confined in a single space. There is a world out there to be enjoyed. I fyou don't travel now, you might miss a place close to paradise for the rest of your life. You know where I am going right?

The person's right to travel became the biggest of all biggest issues this month. From what I have learned, the pyramid of needs introduced by Abraham Maslow has long been forgotten. There are already 8 [not 3] basic needs of man and that includes one's right to travel ; simply put, Transportation. Yes transportation is now a need just as food and clothing and shelter.

So tomorrow is another birthday celebration. This time a hero. This time, not a lady. A man not of words but of actions. A courageous Filipino. What a way to end November without darkness enveloping the abyss of our lazy minds.

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

betwixter generation upon metropolitan modernization

Everything
as in everything
that has to do
with Sunday
Monday
Tuesday and
Wednesday
only brings me
to one
common denominator
and that is ...

Betwixters of Manila

Betwixters are composed of late teenagers looking forward to graduation dates, yuppies or young professionals at age 22 to 28 and the unemployed post graduates just of the same age. It is a new label of age demographics, the stage neither wholly teenager nor mature working class. Most of them are in the heights of experimentation and friend winning. I belong to this generation. Betwixters are people in an intermediate position, we are between. We are betwixt there and there.

To see those who are like you is a great, great experience. For my entire visit is just about betwixters and our lives and our trips.

Sunday in Gateway
Monday musing in UP Diliman
Career Fest at SM Megamall
Last Page browse at PETA
Boys Night Out at the fourth floor

All these are just some of the happenings being enjoyed by betwixters of this epoch.

Sunday in Gateway

The experience of meeting Isaac and Daryl in Cubao is enormous. We had fun. I arrived earlier and waited for Isaac near the Telus Building since he just got out from work. 3pm is his off. But it was at the MRT Station that we met because JS happened to drop by in there before Isaac came. I was too late to find JS at the ticket booth but Isaac just appeared saying he just arrived.

I toured him around the Araneta Center being his first time to be there. We ate at the corner store enjoying the street foods that are classically favorites like "kalamari" and "tukneneng" with gulaman as our drink. Before that, we had jumbo hotdog burger from a hotdog stand adjacent to the rear. Then to give nice ending to a three o'clock meal commonly known as meryenda, he bought me Strawberry Sundae and he caramel sundae as our dessert.

We saw Fatima outside Ali Mall before we met with Daryl at the Gateway, unfortunately she didn't see us. The joy did not end in Gateway. We walked with Daryl towards the station and that's when we parted.

Monday Career Fest and UP Betwixters

A lot of unemployed betwixters lined up for the job hunting that happened last Monday in SM Megamall. The career fest was sponsored by MVP Group of Companies. LDT, Meralco, Metro Pacific all MVP Businesses were there and a lot of young hopefuls were present including yours truly to try their luck for profession. That was a busy morning.

In the afternoon, I just dropped by in UP hoping I can meet some friends, Nikka Mae and Ronald Rae but my phone is in brink and I can't make a call. How would they know I am there? I walked around the UP campus, filling my lungs with the air mostly combination of jeepney smokes and tree exhaust. That was an afternoon of reflection and betwixter sight seeing. I tried observing the college students from UP and most of them in the kiosks, having their assignments done, talking about all kinds of stuff and airing their sentiments regarding what a hell of life college is.

Last Page Play in PETA

Then we come to one of the highlights of the week,,, the play of Teatro Tomasino entitled as "Sa Huling Pahina" I did for support o my friend JS and to finally meet Chad again. The play was good. I am planning to write a separate opinion page about that next time.

Sleep Time Boys Time

Exuberant young men at the fourth floor

Such a nice title for the six young men I slept with that Tuesday, last night actually, after the stage play. I left PETA at around 11pm and Daryl waited for me near Mini Stop, Welcome Rotonda so he could bring me home for I can't be in any place further. Late night is a little dangerous time of the day. There I met Joey and Ken and the rest of the house mates Daryl is proud to brag about.

We really had enjoyable conversations. The meal was good and Kevin, their dog is "makulit" plus the ambiance of the house really supplements my positive well being.

Now I'm back in Laguna and most of teh rains are here. Sunlights are reserved in Manila for sure. I'm so glad I can tressure enough memories brought by our betwixters.

Happy Birthday Saab!!!!!!!

Monday, November 7, 2011

i want it untitled but it's monday

Spending another long weekend is totally an early gift. I had nothing to do and spent the entire early morning in conversation with JS. Friends really missed each other. We talked about the upcoming events particularly that which will be on November 21. I'll be in Manila to attend. We also talked about her student who has an extra sensory perception.

What would I do if I encounter one? We talked about her belief that somewhere in this world there are persons who has the capacity to control time and stop the clock. What would I do if I have that gift? I still can't believe that there really are phenomenon which cannot be explained by plain reason.

Our conversation ended as my battery surrendered. I needed to recharge. While soothing myself with fresher air outside, I met a lady who is buying old coins and silvers and golds. I have none of those but as she sat close to where I am, I took advantage of the time while she was resting and ask her several questions since I have nothing else to do at the moment.

Their central station is in Santo Tomas, Batangas. They buy old coins, silver, and gold only to convert it into pure silver and gold and then sell it to Pampanga where it will be tried to create new jewelries.

I really like this day. I had enough sleep and foods were just so delicious. Being in the company of my Mom and friends. And oh I remember, November 07, 2003 was the start of our three day retreat in high school. We had so much fun then. I miss my SD classmates.

Happy November!!!!